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In spite of the growing number of singles we are seeing today, rarely does the church ever consider that they may be existing in an unnatural state.The presumption is that God hasn’t meant for them to get married “at that time,” so rather than find them spouses, singles are instead pushed to do missions, missions, and more missions.During the time that I attended a service in Colorado, I noticed a few curious things that had me pondering about the state of Christian singles today and how churches treat them.
Our enemy is all about creating dissension, schisms, cliques and divisions. For the single, the potential threat of them becoming leaders and a powerful force within the church is removed for as long as they remain single.The result are amateurs without a strong marital foundation and the needed experience to draw from to effectively lead the congregation.(Even David had his lions and bears before he finally confronted Goliath.) They are novices, and true to the warnings of Scripture, they become lifted up with pride and fall under condemnation.Marrying early, despite no biblical sources to support their premises, is strongly discouraged.Young women are not urged to marry, but do missions, and if God means for them to have a husband, they’ll find one when the “time is right.” The idea of marriage is then put off indefinitely, with the focus instead on supporting church projects, ministries and outreaches.